f is for friends who do stuff together.

so somethings got brought into a different perspective for me tonight:

so...when your best friend's boyfriend really hurts her feelings. so much that they break up and go their separate ways, your best friend is going to be really upset, because he hurt her so bad. you, as her best friend, would no longer want to be friends with that guy because of how badly he hurt her, right?

so how can you sit there and support and defend and constantly spend time with someone who intentionally hurt your best friend? i, for one, would never be friends with your ex boyfriend because of how badly he hurt you...only until you got over it.
if you were able to get over it and be friends with him, only then would i be able to be friends with him. i would not choose to hang out with him over you.
nor would i even be his friend for that matter.
your best friend is supposed to be there for you and stand behind you no matter what. that's what they did when they tag-teamed against your best friend. so why would you defend them, the two people who hurt your best friend so much?
granted, if your best friend got over it, then you could too. but you weren't even mad. like i said, if someone hurt you, they hurt your best friend.
i defend my friends 'til the end. always and forever...
but i guess i can't expect that out of everyone.

that's all.