After finally pulling myself out of a toxic marriage, I promised myself that I would never be that girl again. I swore I would never do the things I did and I swore to myself that I would never settle again. I've had a fun little rodeo and I'm still planning on having fun. But when it comes to a serious relationship, I want all or nothing. I'm not expecting perfection, but I want to feel secure and know that it's real. No sense in setting myself up for heartbreak. That's the kind of talk that might eventually lead to me being a cat lady :) Just one day at a time, that's all.